I ran across a quote at Barnes and Noble today that I found very interesting. "A mature relationship doesn't begin until after the disappointment."
I'm not sure how applicable this is to relationships beyond love, but I think in that case especially it's a very insightful statement. In the beginning of a relationship you see only the good qualities that the other person has. You are both on your best behavior. But sooner or later you realize that he or she is human, just like you. If your relationship is shallow or an essential quality is compromised, the disappointment could be the of end things. But often times it is how you recover from the disappointment that makes or breaks your relationship.
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Here here, good quote.. I think we have unreal expectations of people, a lot of times--indeed no one is perfect. Once we embrace this and love people for who they are, good and bad, we can have healthier relationships. I think it applies to friendships as well. It's a Christian concept. :)
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